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5 Ways to Lift Up Your Spirit When Dealing With Rejection

Dealing with rejection is hard. We all get rejected and it feels awful. Most of the time it lowers our self esteem and then it’s difficult to put ourselves out there again, whether it be for a relationship or a job opportunity. Here are 5 Thing’s I do to make myself feel better after getting rejected.

1. Cry

When I get rejected, I feel extreme sadness and want to let it out, so I do. I often go to a quiet place and just let myself feel sad. Crying right away helps me get over the situation faster.

2. Go to the gym

I’ve been rejected many times, but that doesn’t stop me from trying to look and feel my best. Also, there are many attractive guy’s at the gym who check me out! It definitely helps me feel good about myself, especially after being rejected by someone I really like.

3. Go out with friend’s

Going out with friend’s and meeting new people is a great way to get over being rejected. I usually go out to eat and drink at a event that I know will be packed with fun people like Winedown Wednesday or Taco Tuesday!

4. Get on Bumble or any other dating site

I recently decided to go back on Bumble because I want to meet new people who will be interested in my friendship, or more. Now they have the option to find your bff, or new job if you’re not interested in dating!

5. Just remember EVERYONE gets rejected

Not just you and I get rejected, everyone on this planet does! Even though we feel hurt at that moment of getting turned down, it’s really not a big deal and we just gotta move on to the next thing. You might think that a certain opportunity with a person or job would have been the best thing that can happen to you, but there really are better opportunites out there. Don’t lose hope. Keep trying and live your fabulous life!

Photo credit: https://www.powerofpositivity.com/6-ways-being-rejected-can-make-you-a-better-person/

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My First Semester at Valencia College

I finished my first semester at Valencia College and now I’m free! Well, until I sign up for more classes and have to go back. Let me tell you how it went!

I signed up for classes at Valencia in January andwas so excited to start. My mom bought me a dark grey Adrienne Vittadini backpack, pens, notebooks, and an HP laptop so I could be fully prepared for college. I wanted the first day of school to hurry up and come. I was extremely impatient but of course the day came.

I had four classes in total which were Biology, Intermediate Algebra, English 1, and Speech. The two weeks that went by were super easy because they were preparing us gor the worse…lol but seriously. The amount of homework I had was ridiculous, especially for Biology and Algebra. I eventually got so frustrated and fed up with everything and started hating school so much! I cried so much.

I did push through, studied as much as I could, retook a test for Biology because I failed one of them but passed the ratake with a 90%! Did all of my online math homework, participated in speech class by speaking about interesting topics, and practiced on my writing skills for English. At the end of it all, I was pretty happy with my grades. I got all A’s and B’s. Hard work definitely does pay off.

What I loved most about my college experience is that I met a lot of new friend’s, and learned a lot about myself and that I’m so much smarter than I thought I was. What I hated most about my college is all the homework that was assigned, and the attitudes from some of my professors.

Now I’m thinking of if I want to go back or find a job somewhere, because I miss working. I guess we’ll see soon…

Photo 1: http://alivecampus.com/best-online-resources-for-college-hunting/

Photo 2: https://www.fastweb.com/student-life/articles/ten-ways-to-get-excited-about-your-future-college-even-if-it-wasnt-your-first-choice

Photo 3: http://theodysseyonline.com/radford/reality-of-college-stress/202695

Photo 4:https://www.wikihow.com/Calculate-GPA

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Downtown Orlando With Amazing Friend’s: A St. Patty’s Day to Remember!

I have learned so much already this year and one thing I learned is that If I really want to do something, I’m gonna do it! No matter how big or small. I usually don’t celebrate every holiday. Most of the time I’m home in my pajamas (which I love) but I can do that any other day. Right?!

The weekend for St. Pattys day came around and I originally would have stayed home binge eating, watching Netflix, or go to Ale House, or something. Well, last minute I decided, NO! I’m not staying home! I want to celebrate every holiday out this year, or at least try my best to. I texted some friend’s and most of them were already going out. I asked my mom if she wanted to go too and she replied “Eh, ok why not.” 😁

Mom and I arrived at Wal-Mart really quick to pick up some green wear and found some awesome items. I noticed a huge green top hat and grabbed it. My mother and I also bought dome matching tops that had four leaf clovers covering the sleeves.

We felt prepared and headed to Downtown Orlando. My friend’s met met us at Celine Nightclub and we had a pretty awesome group. My friend’s loved my mom by the way! Haha!

We overall had a great night and I want to continue doing everything I want this year! Can’t wait for more exciting adventures! πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’š

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The Extraordinary, Authentic Wood Watches by JORD

I have always had my eye on Jord Wooden Watches. Not only are all of their classic watches made out of REAL Wood, but they smell amazing, the many designs they offer is astonishing! From Walnut to Zebrawood, men’s watches, as well as women’s. There are a variety of watches to choose from! I have two watches so far and love the style so much. They are definitely different than any other accessory I’ve ever owned.

The Two I have:

Dover Ebony & Copper and Frankie35 – Dark Sandalwood & Slate

Here are a few other favorite styles of mine:

The Cassia: Ebony and Sable

This timepiece is one of JORD’S newest designs. The Roman numeral concave dial, sapphire glass, and stunning ebony wood is a must in anyone’s wardrobe.

The Dover Series: Zebrawood and Dark Sandalwood

This style right here is incredibly remarkable! I love the synchronized design and all the stunning details, especially the contrast between the Dark Sandalwood and Zebrawood.

Cora Series: Koa and Rose Gold

Ummm, who doesn’t need a little sparkle on their wrists?! I know I do! This dazzling, crystal timepiece is for sure on my list, because of it’s warm tone and radiance.

If you would like to know more information, please click the links below to find out what else JORD Wooden Watches has in store for you:

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Also, give JORD Watches a follow on Instagram and check out their fascinating photos!

https://www.instagram.com/jordwatches/

JORD is having an amazing GIVEAWAY!! All you have to do is click the link below, enter your information and then you will be entered to win $100 towards a JORD Wooden Watch of your choice. Good luck!

https://www.woodwatches.com/g/lulumonty

Thank you so much for reading! πŸ–€

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25 Interesting Facts About Me

1. I got made fun of a lot throughout middle school because of my freckles and gapped front teeth.
2. I have four Sphynx cats and they are the most lovable/nosiest pets I’ve ever had.

3. If I could eat anything for the rest of my life, it would be cheese, chocolate, and Chicken Fettucine Alfredo.

4. My number one best friend is my mother, we pretty much do everything together. Her friends are my friends and my friends are hers.

5. I met Denzel Washington and he read to my 2nd grade class. There must be a photo somewhere on the internet! He is also one of my favorite actors!

6. I fell in love/lust with a guy I met on Tinder last year. We only went on 3 dates…

7. Some of my favorite movies are Gone with The Wind, Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Labyrinth, Forest Gump, Pulp Fiction, Just Friends and How to Lose A Guy In Ten Days.

8. My dreams are so vivid that I usually wake up feeling drained and sick. I’ve also felt like some of my dreams could be made into movies.

9. My favorite number is 5 because we have 5 senses, 5 fingers on each hand, 5 toes on each foot, and we have 5 appendages like a starfish.

10. I like to watch the Monthly Pisces Tarot Card Readings on YouTube. I decided to buy tarot cards of my own.

11. I like to sing Karaoke by myself in my room.

12. I have a little obsession with hair. I’m  always changing mine and have dyed my hair almost every color.

13. I rather play sports than watch them. Especially Basketball! 

14. I have a fissured tongue, which means I have a lot of cracks on my tongue. It’s pretty weird.

15. Just like Charlotte York from Sex and The City, I too like to stare at my pores in a 3x mirror.

16. I bite my nails when I’m nervous or anxious.

17. I am a night owl, I can stay awake for hours. My mom thinks I should work in an emergency room after hours or something lol.

18. I will be turning 25 this year and I have never had the Chicken Pocks.

19. I don’t like speaking or singing in public, but I will put on a show with my amazing dance moves!

20. I used to have a huge celebrity crush on Dylan O’Brien from Teen Wolf. I love funny guy’s and he is hilarious. ❀

21. Passion and Pink Carnations are my favorite flowers.

22. When I really like a song, I will play it repeatedly, every day, until I get tired of it. The most recent song’s are Somebody Else by  The 1975 and I Think We’re Alone Now by Tiffany.

23. If I could be a part of any era, it would be the 1920’s or 80’s.

24. I can’t sleep in the dark, I need to have a nightlight on.

25. I got my belly button pierced when I was thirteen years’ old.
Thanks for reading! Feel free to ask me any questions!

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Tarot Photo: old.http://pinterest.com/pin/448037862912980389/?source_app=android

1975 Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/455778424772003858/?source_app=android

Pink Carnations Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/487373990908458561/?source_app=android

Kiss photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/256564509994918686/?source_app=android

Owl Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/520728775648024925/?source_app=android

Young Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/241153755024830641/?source_app=android

Labyrinth Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/267753140323995147/?source_app=android

Tinder Humor Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/12033123982625299/?source_app=android

Starfish Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/Ab8DJUGLIcjL8GybWVUpVRWLcSktPjMuQeaPs_MMYAIuYO-TB5uSOhw/?source_app=android

Basketball Hoop Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/481814860125844652/?source_app=android

Denzel Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/164099980152817622/?source_app=android

Fav Chocolate Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/643170390506866534/?source_app=android

Rainbow Hair: https://pinterest.com/pin/423619908683304208/?source_app=android

Dream: https://pinterest.com/pin/179440366378093440/?source_app=android

Night Light: http://pinterest.com/pin/231372499581898830/?source_app=android

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LED Cherry Blossom Jewelry TreeΒ 

  I was looking through my jewelry box because I was trying to find my clear quart skull shaped stone’s that I haven’t seen in a while (and still can’t πŸ™), but instead, I found necklaces that I’ve forgotten about and noticed that all of them were tangled! I looked around and thought “Aha!! I can hang them on my LED cherry blossom tree that my mom bought for me from Home Goods!” One by one, I started hanging each necklace on every empty branch till the tree was full! 

Here is the result:

 I am so obsessed with my tree now! This idea makes finding my necklaces so much easier. I can’t believe I didn’t think about doing this earlier but I’m glad I did now. No more forgetting about what necklaces I have, where a specific one might be, and no more tangles! I definitely suggest this idea to all the jewelry lovers out there. πŸ’πŸ“Ώ

Some of my favorite necklaces: