Thought of The Day: I’m Finally Starting To Realize How To Find True Happiness For Myself

I just realized something so important. For the past 2 year’s, I pushed away my dreams and everything I really wanted to do because I was so focused on love. There’s so many talents I have that made me extremely happy doing when I was in High School like dancing, singing, acting, and graphic design. I’m done wasting my time focusing on the wrong thing’s in life. Today I stopped and thought about what my dreams used to be and how I can make them into a reality! Along the way of following my dreams, I’m sure the right person will come along.

I miss how innocent my desires were. All I cared about was learning a new dance move, how to hoola hoop, ice skate, getting a T-Shirt to puff paint, etc. I had a bunch of hobbies. I always imagined myself at parties or on a stage in front of many people singing my favorite tune in a sparkly dress.

I feel like society has us believe that we should be married, have our own house, kids and a career by age twenty five to thirty year’s old. Those thing’s are nice to have, but there’s so much more to life than marriage and working a 9 to 5 job! When I really think about it, I honestly don’t care about having kids or getting married anytime soon. I just want my freedom and to have that innocent mindset again. I’ve been so stressed, but today I feel like a weight has been taken off my chest. Life shouldn’t be about worrying so much. Life should be FUN.

From now on I want to focus more on creating great relationships with friend’s and family, and traveling! There’s so much to look forward to! ๐Ÿ’—

Great quotes from Sex and the City:

“If I really wanted a baby, wouldn’t I have tried to have one by now? I wanted to be a writer, I made myself a writer. I want a ridiculously extravagant pair of shoes, I find a way to buy them!”

– Carrie Bradshaw

“After Miranda used the “S” word twice I wondered if should was another disease plaguing women. Did we want babies and perfect honeymoons or did we think we should have babies and perfect honeymoons? How do we separate what we could do from what we should do? And here’s an alarming thought. ‘ It’s not just peer pressure, it seems to be coming from within. Why are we should-ing all over ourselves?”

-Carrie Bradshaw

4 thoughts on “Thought of The Day: I’m Finally Starting To Realize How To Find True Happiness For Myself

  1. Good for you! And you are so right! There really are more things to life ๐Ÿ˜Š Instead of sometimes worrying about the things we donโ€™t have (yet) itโ€™s at times nice to find fun in the things we do have ๐Ÿ˜€ Great post! Glad to see you being so happy ๐Ÿ˜€

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  2. There is definitely too much pressure for people to settle down and have kids, and with all the things wrong with the world being picky is responsible. Itโ€™s important to not be overly eager to get locked into a long term decision like starting a family.
    Sidenote:
    Even though the intelligent portion of the population is increasingly becoming smaller itโ€™s still good to be patient and picky.

    Iโ€™ve been living like a monk for years, which is difficult sometimes, but it makes it possible to have time to learn about my interests and build a future where Iโ€™m not going to need to live the nine to five lifestyle when someone Iโ€™m happy enough with keep comes into my life. Itโ€™s way less stressful.

    Keep fighting the good fight.

    Ray

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    1. Yes! I 100% agree! I’m learning more about myself everyday! We all are and it’s a good thing to wait and take thing’s slow when it comes to relationships. ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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