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5 Ways to Lift Up Your Spirit When Dealing With Rejection

Dealing with rejection is hard. We all get rejected and it feels awful. Most of the time it lowers our self esteem and then it’s difficult to put ourselves out there again, whether it be for a relationship or a job opportunity. Here are 5 Thing’s I do to make myself feel better after getting rejected.

1. Cry

When I get rejected, I feel extreme sadness and want to let it out, so I do. I often go to a quiet place and just let myself feel sad. Crying right away helps me get over the situation faster.

2. Go to the gym

I’ve been rejected many times, but that doesn’t stop me from trying to look and feel my best. Also, there are many attractive guy’s at the gym who check me out! It definitely helps me feel good about myself, especially after being rejected by someone I really like.

3. Go out with friend’s

Going out with friend’s and meeting new people is a great way to get over being rejected. I usually go out to eat and drink at a event that I know will be packed with fun people like Winedown Wednesday or Taco Tuesday!

4. Get on Bumble or any other dating site

I recently decided to go back on Bumble because I want to meet new people who will be interested in my friendship, or more. Now they have the option to find your bff, or new job if you’re not interested in dating!

5. Just remember EVERYONE gets rejected

Not just you and I get rejected, everyone on this planet does! Even though we feel hurt at that moment of getting turned down, it’s really not a big deal and we just gotta move on to the next thing. You might think that a certain opportunity with a person or job would have been the best thing that can happen to you, but there really are better opportunites out there. Don’t lose hope. Keep trying and live your fabulous life!

Photo credit: https://www.powerofpositivity.com/6-ways-being-rejected-can-make-you-a-better-person/

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25 Interesting Facts About Me

1. I got made fun of a lot throughout middle school because of my freckles and gapped front teeth.
2. I have four Sphynx cats and they are the most lovable/nosiest pets I’ve ever had.

3. If I could eat anything for the rest of my life, it would be cheese, chocolate, and Chicken Fettucine Alfredo.

4. My number one best friend is my mother, we pretty much do everything together. Her friends are my friends and my friends are hers.

5. I met Denzel Washington and he read to my 2nd grade class. There must be a photo somewhere on the internet! He is also one of my favorite actors!

6. I fell in love/lust with a guy I met on Tinder last year. We only went on 3 dates…

7. Some of my favorite movies are Gone with The Wind, Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Labyrinth, Forest Gump, Pulp Fiction, Just Friends and How to Lose A Guy In Ten Days.

8. My dreams are so vivid that I usually wake up feeling drained and sick. I’ve also felt like some of my dreams could be made into movies.

9. My favorite number is 5 because we have 5 senses, 5 fingers on each hand, 5 toes on each foot, and we have 5 appendages like a starfish.

10. I like to watch the Monthly Pisces Tarot Card Readings on YouTube. I decided to buy tarot cards of my own.

11. I like to sing Karaoke by myself in my room.

12. I have a little obsession with hair. I’m  always changing mine and have dyed my hair almost every color.

13. I rather play sports than watch them. Especially Basketball! 

14. I have a fissured tongue, which means I have a lot of cracks on my tongue. It’s pretty weird.

15. Just like Charlotte York from Sex and The City, I too like to stare at my pores in a 3x mirror.

16. I bite my nails when I’m nervous or anxious.

17. I am a night owl, I can stay awake for hours. My mom thinks I should work in an emergency room after hours or something lol.

18. I will be turning 25 this year and I have never had the Chicken Pocks.

19. I don’t like speaking or singing in public, but I will put on a show with my amazing dance moves!

20. I used to have a huge celebrity crush on Dylan O’Brien from Teen Wolf. I love funny guy’s and he is hilarious. ❤

21. Passion and Pink Carnations are my favorite flowers.

22. When I really like a song, I will play it repeatedly, every day, until I get tired of it. The most recent song’s are Somebody Else by  The 1975 and I Think We’re Alone Now by Tiffany.

23. If I could be a part of any era, it would be the 1920’s or 80’s.

24. I can’t sleep in the dark, I need to have a nightlight on.

25. I got my belly button pierced when I was thirteen years’ old.
Thanks for reading! Feel free to ask me any questions!

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Tarot Photo: old.http://pinterest.com/pin/448037862912980389/?source_app=android

1975 Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/455778424772003858/?source_app=android

Pink Carnations Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/487373990908458561/?source_app=android

Kiss photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/256564509994918686/?source_app=android

Owl Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/520728775648024925/?source_app=android

Young Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/241153755024830641/?source_app=android

Labyrinth Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/267753140323995147/?source_app=android

Tinder Humor Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/12033123982625299/?source_app=android

Starfish Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/Ab8DJUGLIcjL8GybWVUpVRWLcSktPjMuQeaPs_MMYAIuYO-TB5uSOhw/?source_app=android

Basketball Hoop Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/481814860125844652/?source_app=android

Denzel Photo: https://pinterest.com/pin/164099980152817622/?source_app=android

Fav Chocolate Photo: http://pinterest.com/pin/643170390506866534/?source_app=android

Rainbow Hair: https://pinterest.com/pin/423619908683304208/?source_app=android

Dream: https://pinterest.com/pin/179440366378093440/?source_app=android

Night Light: http://pinterest.com/pin/231372499581898830/?source_app=android

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Dating Sucks 

What is going on? Dating used to be so easy! Now it’s hard to get a date at all! I know I’m not the most beautiful girl in the world, plenty of people think I’m very attractive but will never ask me out on a real date.

I feel like I’m the one trying to get the guy’s I like to go out with me, but it never works. There’s always an excuse, and I start feeling like there’s something wrong with me.

I’ve been using Tinder for almost a year now, on and off but of course, no luck with that app either. I mean, I met one guy I actually really liked a lot but of course he’s out looking for better and then I have a couple of guy’s from the app on my Social media account’s that like my photos but never want to meet me in person…. like huh?!

The only guy’s who ask me out are men in their 50’s + that aren’t even attractive at all. I know that it’s not all about looks and age but c’mon! I need to date someone who I have somewhat of an attraction to and is close to my age.

I’m just very dissapointed. The fact that I can’t even get a text back from a guy I like when I invite him out once is just ridiculous already. I’m not asking for an expensive night out or a diamond ring. Just to meet up for a drink or something and hang out! Seems like that’s the most I can get out of a guy these day’s…

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Toxic People/Relationships

I am sure many of you reading this has had a toxic relationship whether it be with a friend, family member, co-worker, or a significant other. Just know that you are not alone!

I myself have many toxic people in my life who I am slowly trying to drop. The older I am getting, the more I realize how many relationships I’ve had with people who were no good for me.

Toxic people are people who cause drama in your life, don’t care for your well being, talk crap behind your back to other’s, use you, and pretty much don’t want to see you succeed or be happy in life, ever!

I just know that I don’t want to deal with drama, have people take advantage of me and make my life hell. No thanks! BYE!!!

#positivevibesonly #ineednewfriends