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5 Ways to Lift Up Your Spirit When Dealing With Rejection

Dealing with rejection is hard. We all get rejected and it feels awful. Most of the time it lowers our self esteem and then it’s difficult to put ourselves out there again, whether it be for a relationship or a job opportunity. Here are 5 Thing’s I do to make myself feel better after getting rejected.

1. Cry

When I get rejected, I feel extreme sadness and want to let it out, so I do. I often go to a quiet place and just let myself feel sad. Crying right away helps me get over the situation faster.

2. Go to the gym

I’ve been rejected many times, but that doesn’t stop me from trying to look and feel my best. Also, there are many attractive guy’s at the gym who check me out! It definitely helps me feel good about myself, especially after being rejected by someone I really like.

3. Go out with friend’s

Going out with friend’s and meeting new people is a great way to get over being rejected. I usually go out to eat and drink at a event that I know will be packed with fun people like Winedown Wednesday or Taco Tuesday!

4. Get on Bumble or any other dating site

I recently decided to go back on Bumble because I want to meet new people who will be interested in my friendship, or more. Now they have the option to find your bff, or new job if you’re not interested in dating!

5. Just remember EVERYONE gets rejected

Not just you and I get rejected, everyone on this planet does! Even though we feel hurt at that moment of getting turned down, it’s really not a big deal and we just gotta move on to the next thing. You might think that a certain opportunity with a person or job would have been the best thing that can happen to you, but there really are better opportunites out there. Don’t lose hope. Keep trying and live your fabulous life!

Photo credit: https://www.powerofpositivity.com/6-ways-being-rejected-can-make-you-a-better-person/

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The Extraordinary, Authentic Wood Watches by JORD

I have always had my eye on Jord Wooden Watches. Not only are all of their classic watches made out of REAL Wood, but they smell amazing, the many designs they offer is astonishing! From Walnut to Zebrawood, men’s watches, as well as women’s. There are a variety of watches to choose from! I have two watches so far and love the style so much. They are definitely different than any other accessory I’ve ever owned.

The Two I have:

Dover Ebony & Copper and Frankie35 – Dark Sandalwood & Slate

Here are a few other favorite styles of mine:

The Cassia: Ebony and Sable

This timepiece is one of JORD’S newest designs. The Roman numeral concave dial, sapphire glass, and stunning ebony wood is a must in anyone’s wardrobe.

The Dover Series: Zebrawood and Dark Sandalwood

This style right here is incredibly remarkable! I love the synchronized design and all the stunning details, especially the contrast between the Dark Sandalwood and Zebrawood.

Cora Series: Koa and Rose Gold

Ummm, who doesn’t need a little sparkle on their wrists?! I know I do! This dazzling, crystal timepiece is for sure on my list, because of it’s warm tone and radiance.

If you would like to know more information, please click the links below to find out what else JORD Wooden Watches has in store for you:

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Also, give JORD Watches a follow on Instagram and check out their fascinating photos!

https://www.instagram.com/jordwatches/

JORD is having an amazing GIVEAWAY!! All you have to do is click the link below, enter your information and then you will be entered to win $100 towards a JORD Wooden Watch of your choice. Good luck!

https://www.woodwatches.com/g/lulumonty

Thank you so much for reading! šŸ–¤

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Dating SucksĀ 

What is going on? Dating used to be so easy! Now it’s hard to get a date at all! I know I’m not the most beautiful girl in the world, plenty of people think I’m very attractive but will never ask me out on a real date.

I feel like I’m the one trying to get the guy’s I like to go out with me, but it never works. There’s always an excuse, and I start feeling like there’s something wrong with me.

I’ve been using Tinder for almost a year now, on and off but of course, no luck with that app either. I mean, I met one guy I actually really liked a lot but of course he’s out looking for better and then I have a couple of guy’s from the app on my Social media account’s that like my photos but never want to meet me in person…. like huh?!

The only guy’s who ask me out are men in their 50’s + that aren’t even attractive at all. I know that it’s not all about looks and age but c’mon! I need to date someone who I have somewhat of an attraction to and is close to my age.

I’m just very dissapointed. The fact that I can’t even get a text back from a guy I like when I invite him out once is just ridiculous already. I’m not asking for an expensive night out or a diamond ring. Just to meet up for a drink or something and hang out! Seems like that’s the most I can get out of a guy these day’s…